The Talk… No! Not That Talk!

The talk happened!  With the coworker who messed with me… it happened last Thursday evening when I went in to the office.  I asked her to step into the chart room for a private chat.  In there, she asked about my personal leave, and I told her it had been cut short.  She asked if I had been the one to ask for shorter time off.  As if!

I told her, “No, I didn’t.  They denied me my leave because we didn’t have coverage.”

“Well, they had the other girl.”

“But, they didn’t have you.”  She seemed befuddled by that and I told her my leave was denied because she was out of the office, and they wanted me to stick around for three extra weeks and cover for her.  She was surprised.  Nobody had told her anything the entire two weeks I was gone from the office.  Not a peep!  She told me that she had informed our manager of her extended leave in March of this year.  I made a face and she insisted that she had.  Except, when I was scouting out my school and had basically found out when my program started (around that exact same time of year), and told my manager, she did not say a thing about her being gone.  Not once did it pop up in the many conversations we had about my departure from the office from full-time to part-time.

I had some pretty exact dates that I gave to my manager.  And not once did she say, “Oh!  The other girl is leaving from June 21st to August 21st.”  And, that is something you tell another person very early on.  I didn’t tell her that I didn’t believe her, and I plan to check up on that fact with my manager when she gets back from vacation.  I informed her that her very, Very, VERY long trip cut my time off short.  I said that I never took off longer than a little over a week EVER in the entire three years I worked at the office.  She already had me beat within the first year of her employment.

I said I was working in the back now as an assistant, and was only at the desk on Mondays.  I had school and my other job, and was not going to be involved with what she was doing that much.  She seemed fine and apologized to me for what her vacation had done to my leave.  I ‘accepted’ the apology, but mostly because I wanted the conversation to be over, so I could get back to the operatories.

I still don’t trust her as as far as I could throw her, and I want to find out from my manager if she really did inform her that far in advance; or if she was simply just prepared that far in advance.  I am not covering her ass, and I told her to not ask too much of the other girl because she has a one-year-old boy, who needs her attention.  Basically, I gave her a light warning.  Well, in two weeks, I’ll ask my manager and find out the truth.  Until then, I’m assuming she bullshitted her way through half our conversation.

And on that note, it’s been real!

Quizzes, Tests, & Life

Now, this is only my second week of school, but since it’s an accelerated program, there is a test or a quiz, or both every two days, and sometimes every day.  Our teacher has been good about going over all our tests and studying each question and answer thoroughly before she hands them to us.  We go over the homework together and all complain equally about how the book frequently doesn’t have half of what’s on the paper.  All of us, except one.

The first time I saw this woman, I thought, “Wow!  She’s already pissed and the class hasn’t even started yet!”  Then I realized she just suffered from ‘resting b*tch face’.  She’s not mean or anything, she just looks annoyed about something all the time.  And apparently, she has a reason to be.  While I was sitting in the computer lab at lunch, taking a test/survey online, my teacher sat next to me.  She told me that she had a discussion with some of the senior faculty and staff about how anti-social and irritated my fellow classmate has been.  We’ve offered to go over the same homeworks together, but she doesn’t join us.  She then asks us questions about that homework after we’ve all finished and turned it in.  Which is slightly annoying.

When class was over and done and she had packed up and left, my teacher told all of us that she did not do well on the three tests we took today.  Apparently, the rest of us all got in the A range of grading, except for her, and she was not happy about it.  But, she doesn’t study with us, and we don’t know if she even studies at home.  Now, there have been times where I forget to study, and I’m cramming it in right before the paper is put on my desk.  But I’ve still got A’s, and that’s what my teacher and the school are looking for.  It was kind of sad, but she is disconnected from the rest of us and chooses to be that way.  My teacher said she felt bad, but she didn’t want us to feel obligated to bring her into our circle anymore if she didn’t want to be there.  When our modules start getting harder, it will feel like that one saying: “You don’t have to out run the bear; you just have to out run the other guy.”  She will become that ‘other guy’ to us, but it’s her own fault.

And on that note, it’s been real!

Because I Don’t

Remember when I said that I was going to have that talk with that stupid girl who pissed me off when I went into work on Tuesday night?  Well… that talk didn’t happen (yet).  The reason being was by the time I got there, my doctor had started a procedure and I didn’t want to miss anything.  I put my gloves, safety glasses, and mask on, and went right back to his operatory.  She was sitting at her side of the desk when I arrived, but I didn’t have the time to acknowledge her existence.

I came up to the front desk a little later to check to see if the next patient had arrived.  That was when I said hi to my former trainee, but ignored her.  I didn’t really have the time to talk her/was too happy to ruin my evening by talking to her.  After she left, I asked my trainee if she commented on my ignoring her.  She said that the stupid woman had asked if I was mad at her.  Really?  You haven’t been told yet?

I’m going to go out on a limb and guess that none of the girls have told her how she screwed up my plans and how pissed I was by that.  I am very surprised the tongues have not been wagging at the lunch table or in the chart room.  I guess everyone figured I wanted to be the one to burst her happy/naive bubble.  I wonder if she’ll try to corner me tonight when I come in?  Possibly.  She’ll ask if there is a problem between us, and I’ll have to explain in simple terms that… yes… there is in fact a problem.  I’ll interrogate her, ask her if anybody did whisper anything while I was gone, and if not, I’ll just shine the lamp in her face and do it myself.  If she gets upset by my honesty, then she can cry me a river and build a bridge over it.  Because the water isn’t under mine yet.

And on that note, it’s been real!

I’ve Got It Good

So, my first day back to school started out a little crazy because I had forgotten that I had a quiz… or two… plus a chapter test to take after Labor Day.  Needless to say, I was freaking out on the inside, but calmly asking (like everybody else) to go over the material before we took it.  My teacher (the sweetheart that she is), agreed and went over everything in detail.  When we finished and she handed us the quiz, I could feel my heart beating rather wildly.  However, despite my trepidation, I completed the quiz in record time and turned it in.  After a few minutes, she returned it to me with 100% grade!  Yay for me!  I was so pleased.  Now, let’s start going over the material for the second quiz…

The second quiz was re-studied, taken, and once more, returned with a perfect grade.  Well, the breathing was definitely getting easier, but there was still the chapter test to take and put under my belt.  The studying for that took a little longer, and most assuredly had me more concerned.  However, it was once again not needed.  The morning went swimmingly with THREE important papers tagged and bagged with good grades.

After that, the director of the school took me aside and gave me some pretty good news.  Sort of like the icing on the cake.  Since I had already gone to a vocational school for the class that I am currently taking while I was in high school, some of my credits transferred over.  He told me he would send those to the financial woman, she would do the deduction, and I would owe less to the school for my program.  I was psyched!  I technically don’t even have to come in to go over the things we’re currently doing in class, but I will still so that I can get a refresher.  But at least, from here on out, I don’t have to worry about studying so hard for everything.  Sure, I still want to kick *ss in the grades department, but I’m not being graded for my work, because the school is saying it has already been done.  Which is nice for me.  I’ll just focus a little more on the nitty gritties at the office when I work there after school.

All in all, my holiday was ‘meh’, but the first day back to school was ‘great’!  I am very pleased with myself and hope to continue my good luck streak for rest of the year.  Although, knock on wood, don’t tempt the Fates!

And on that note, it’s been real!

The Bitch Is Back!

Today is a big day for me, because after I’m done with school and my homework, I get to go back to my office for training/work this evening.  I will be happy to see my other doctor again and his assistant, because I consider them to be both my friends.  I know that my doctor is technically my employer, but before I left for school, he gave me a hug and thanked me for being such a good employee.  I may have mentioned that in a previous post.

Today, I get to see a few more people I haven’t seen in a little while (people who didn’t appear in the lower office when I dropped by last week).  But… that will also mean I will probably see HER.  That’s right, the woman who f*cked me over so she could go on vacation.  My manager will be gone tomorrow and for the rest of this week.  She is on a trip now.  I will probably see the insurance and billing person, and my one-time trainee will be the front desk person tonight.  I will be arriving just as that woman should be leaving.  I will not be the one to initiate first contact.  She will have to address me.  And, as I have said before, the conversation will not a pretty one.

Screw me once, shame on you; screw me twice, shame on me.  I should have spoken out against her going again, and I wound up paying for it.  Now, she’ll have to suffer the consequences of her own ill-begotten actions.

I probably won’t write about exactly what happened until Thursday.  That’s when our first meeting in detail will be posted.  I’m dreadfully curious to find out what she has to say for herself.  If she discovered how angry I was at her, and how I basically schooled the new girl to not help her out.  Hey, Fate is a cruel mistress, and Revenge an equally cruel master.  That’s just one of my many methodologies.

And on that note, it’s been real!

It’s Back to Work! On Labor Day?

Okay, first of all, this was not for Labor Day, this was for this past weekend when I went back to my restaurant after having been off for two weeks.  The first night was the night from hell, as I suspected it would be.  One of the servers was late, so she lost most of the tables in her section to everyone else.  We were down a person behind the bar, and then every living creature under the sun wanted to sit in every other spot but the one where I needed to put them.  I was basically running around like a mad person.  My head hurt, and my back ached terribly by the end of the night, and I only rewarded myself with one drink at the bar when it was all said and done.

On Saturday night, things were a little easier.  I was still mumbling things under my breath with people were being difficult.  I tend to say things like:

  • You will sit here and you will like it.
  • Just walk by me; I dare you.
  • You ignore me; it’s a two way street, honey.
  • (They say, “I’m sorry.”)  Me: No, you’re not.

It’s actually little phrases like that that wind up keeping me calm when I want to scream at them and tell them what big idiots they are.  My therapist actually recommends it, in place of physical violence ;).  In fact, I recommend it everyone.  If there is somebody or everybody who is pissing you off, just say something really nasty about them under your breath, and you’ll be fine a second later.  Good therapy!

Anywhoo, I hope that everyone here has a wonderful Labor Day that is labor free.

And on that note, it’s been real!

She Probably Knows

Alright, so I stopped in at my office partially to say ‘hello’ and partially to get a copy of a certification so I could avoid doing a stupid three hour test at school later this year or next year.  My manager and one of the doctors, the billing lady, and two hygienists greeted me as I entered the downstairs office.  I gave them a little update on schooling (I had only been in for three days), and asked for the copy of the certification.  We talked and told some jokes, before my replacement receptionist came down.  She and I hugged and talked (she wants to hang with me because I’m so cool), then she had to go back upstairs to work.

While I was there, I was a little worried the other receptionist (the one who screwed me over) would come down and try to greet me.  Thankfully, she didn’t.  I texted the one hygienist who had been in the office, and asked her if she had known I was there.  She responded by saying the b*tch hadn’t known I was there the entire time.  She apparently also asked if I had come upstairs at all.

Um… no, I didn’t come up because I didn’t want to see you!  I know that we will have to talk eventually if we are to work together when I come back; and one of the hygienists said we had to talk.  However, I want the talk to be on my terms.  Those terms are as follows:

  1. No buffer.  No manager or doctor, or anybody else to stand between me and the woman, who has been such a pain in my *ss.
  2. She does not get a word in edgewise until I’ve said my peace.  And I’ve got a peace to say.

And my actual terms of the talk are:

  1. She and I are not friends.  She does not try to be buddy-buddy with me.  If she does, I will guillotine her.
  2. Our relationship is strictly business.  She hands me things, I hand them back.  She tells me when patients are here, and does not ask me for help.  WITH ANYTHING!
  3. She does not ask about me on a personal level.  She tries to find out anything about me, what I’m doing, or how school’s going, she will hear from me (on a nuclear level).
  4. She does not ask me to cover shifts for her.  I don’t care if her daughter ‘has’ a dance recital, or her son ‘has’ a baseball game; she’ll have to ask my replacement, or miss it.

Sounds harsh, I know; but as I have said before, I’m not a forgiving person.  I had to put all my plans on hold because she had lied and gone on a practically three month vacation.  On a scale of 1 – 10, how high do you think my tolerance is for her right now?  Negative numbers.  Already, she is going to have to (if she’s still at the office), work the entirety of the Christmas break by herself!  I’m not coming in, her replacement is going back to her home state, and my manager and the billing lady want some time off as well.  So, as the old proverb says, “Sink or swim!”

And on that note, it’s been real!